In a country where menstruation (menses or periods as it is popularly known) is considered ‘dirty’, and in traditional households, the women aren’t allowed to go anywhere ‘near God’, pray or touch anything that is considered remotely holy, we often get this query asking if it is okay to have sex during periods!
Does having sex during periods prevent pregnancy?
Well, logically, there are very rare chances of one getting pregnant because of sex during this time. Even though the unfertilized egg may still be present in the body, the uterus is in ‘disposal’ mode (the lining of the uterus is being shed) preventing fertilization and implantation. Hormones necessary for the pregnancy to progress also aren’t available.
In rare cases, when people have claimed to have gotten pregnant post sex during periods, the reason actually might be the bleeding they had was not a ‘period’ in the first place. It might have been due to ‘implantation bleeding’ that occurs when the fertilized egg ‘settles’ into the lining of the uterus. Read about the safe period to have sex.
So, there is no need to use a condom or other protection in such a situation?
This is a popular myth. Even though the chances of getting pregnant are extremely rare, the risk for transmission of STDs is actually higher. So, do use condoms or other appropriate barrier contraception.
How do I convince my woman to have sex during her periods?
Most women suffer from a lot of cramps, pain, are uncomfortable and dealing with mood swings during their periods. Sex may be the last thing on their mind. However, if you told her how women actually have better orgasms when they are menstruating, they’d perhaps be interested. If you’re wondering how – the ‘fullness’ and engorgement that women feel in the pelvis and their sexual organs makes them very sensitive to stimulation. Add to this the fact that sex during periods has also been shown to reduce menstrual pain and cramps, and they should be hankering for your loving! Read more about how you can ease menstrual pain.
Is it true that sex during periods puts and end to the period?
The uterine contractions during the orgasm coupled with progesterone present in the semen accelerate the bleeding. The period which would have usually lasted for 4-5 days may come to an abrupt end after a period of heavy flow right after the intercourse. So, be prepared! So, as you can see, there is no need for a ‘closed for maintenance’ attitude during the menstrual periods. Just go with the flow!
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